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Between The Beats
Reflections on healing, connection, and coming home to yourself.
You Know What You Need to Do. You Just Can't Start. That's Executive Dysfunction.
You have the list. You know what needs to happen. You even care about it. And yet you sit there, frozen, while the hours pass and the shame gets louder. If this is your life, you already know what executive dysfunction feels like — even if no one has ever called it that. This is not a willpower problem. This is not laziness. And you are not the only one who lives here. What Is Executive Dysfunction?Executive dysfunction is what happens when the brain's system for planning, st
erica smalla
Oct 59 min read
When Everything Stops Working: Understanding Neurodivergent Burnout
If you've hit a wall where you can't do the things you used to be able to do — the things that once felt automatic, the tasks you managed just fine before — you may be experiencing neurodivergent burnout. Not the overworked kind. The other kind: where the mask doesn't fit anymore, where the noise is unbearable, where you look at a to-do list and your brain returns nothing. This is what neurodivergent burnout feels like, and if it sounds familiar, you are not falling apart. Yo
erica smalla
Oct 59 min read


Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria: Why Rejection Hits So Hard When You Have ADHD or AuDHD
If you have ADHD, autism, or AuDHD, that isn't you being "too sensitive." It's rejection sensitive dysphoria, and it's one of the most painful — and least talked-about — parts of being neurodivergent.A partner sighs at the wrong moment and the flood hits instantly — shame, panic, an overwhelming urge to disappear.
erica smalla
Oct 37 min read


Neurodivergent Couples Communication: Why You Keep Misunderstanding Each Other
You can care deeply about your partner and still feel as though you keep missing each other. In mixed-neurotype relationships, silence, directness, changing plans, emotional intensity, or needing space can carry very different meanings. This article explores neurodivergent couples communication through an IFS-informed lens—and offers a gentler way to understand the protective patterns beneath conflict, shutdowns, and disconnection.
erica smalla
Sep 309 min read


Why Do I Distract Myself? Listening to What You Need in the Moment Before
What if reaching for your phone, a snack, or one more episode isn’t a failure of self-control? The moment before the distraction may hold a clue about what you need. Here’s how to get curious without judging yourself.
erica smalla
Sep 273 min read


The Nervous System Is Sacred: A Journey of Nervous System Healing
At Heartbeat Therapy Group, we believe that your body carries sacred wisdom — and nervous system healing begins the moment you start listening. Your nervous system isn’t something to control or fix; it’s something to honor. Every pulse, every trembling breath, every wave of emotion is your body’s way of saying, “I’m here. I’m protecting you. I’m ready to heal.” The process of nervous system healing invites us back into relationship with ourselves — and with others — in a way
erica smalla
Oct 9, 20255 min read


Neurodivergent Affirming Therapy in Concord NC: Thriving as Your Authentic Self
At Heartbeat Therapy & Wellness in Concord, NC, we believe every brain belongs. Through neurodivergent affirming therapy, we support ADHD, autistic, and sensitive clients in celebrating strengths like creativity and empathy, while offering tools for executive function, sensory regulation, and anxiety relief. With individual sessions and groups for kids, teens, and couples, you can thrive as your authentic Self.
erica smalla
Oct 3, 20253 min read


Therapy for Deep Feelers & Thinkers
If you’re someone who feels deeply, thinks expansively, and has been told you’re “too much,” this post is for you. At Heartbeat Therapy & Wellness, we believe your sensitivity and depth are gifts—not flaws. Through Internal Family Systems (IFS), creative expression, and nervous system care, therapy can help you transform overwhelm into clarity, reconnect with your true Self, and begin building the authentic life you’ve always imagined.
erica smalla
Sep 28, 20256 min read


Mixed Neurotype Couples: How IFS Therapy Unlocks Vibrancy, Healing, and Deep Connection
What Are Mixed Neurotype Couples? A mixed neurotype couple is a partnership where one partner is neurodivergent (autistic, ADHD, dyslexic, etc.) and the other is neurotypical—or both are neurodivergent in different ways. These couples often face unique communication, sensory, and emotional challenges—but they also carry extraordinary potential for depth, creativity, and resilience. When I first began working with mixed neurotype couples—where one partner is neurodivergent and
erica smalla
Sep 28, 20255 min read
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